The woman I married from the village and brought to Accra has come pompous and disrespectful – Man cries
Most individuals are forced to be modest by poverty and other indications of poor living, but when they emerge from these abject conditions, their true character is revealed.
An anonymous online post by a young Ghanaian guy bemoans how his wife now treats him with contempt after they just wed a woman they met in the countryside.
The guy who identified himself as Kwesi claimed that he chose to wed a woman from the countryside because he thought city women were more demanding and had an insatiable thirst for wealth.
Sadly, he was unaware that he was about to make one of the worst choices of his life.
Kwesi asserted that his wife was courteous and well-behaved when he initially took her to Accra in his viral article that has been the talk of social media.
Never should husbands encourage their spouses to outperform them.
But as she met new acquaintances in the city, everything abruptly changed. She has begun to demand enormous quantities of money from him and has begun frequenting nightclubs.
The wife, who was formerly polite and subservient, has turned haughty like Emperor Nero and often disagrees with him.
Kwesi wrote, “sharing his struggle with the world;
“I thought marrying a girl from my village is the best because of how the city girls in Accra are so demanding and love spending money but I have regrets now.
When I first brought her to Accra after our marriage, she was very good but after her eye opened and she made friends, she become uncomfortable. She now goes out on her own and party her city friends.
Her demands now are more than that of the city girl I left for her. She does not respect anymore, very arrogant and always thinking she knows better. I am so depressed now”
Anybody considering marriage may benefit much from Kwesi’s experience. It is important to take the time to get to know someone before making any rash judgments.
Marriage is a lifelong commitment that requires love, respect, and understanding between both partners; these qualities cannot be exclusively secured by proximity to one another geographically or culturally.
Some of the social media users’ reactions to the news are included below.
Hope Avekwa – You brought it upon yourself, why must you think such a thing in the first place that city girls are more demanding than village once? I can see greedy ness lead you to this, stingy has no medicine so stay in it like that.
Gyabaah Emmanuel – Don’t forget everyone in the city is from the village so going for a lady from the village to the city is from “frying pan to fire”
Iyke Emmanuel – When you try your best to change her for good and it couldn’t work out, kindly separate with her if only you have kids with her but if not divorce her, maybe you both r not meant to be together as man and wife, to avoid worst she might bring on table in times to come….
Stapello GH – MORAL LESSON: A city girls whose eyes has opened and understands you, is better than a Village whose eyes are not yet opened
Morrison Agbenorhevi – The devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know. Do your home work well. Your Happiness is in your power.
